Monthly Boulder Constellating Systems Day (CO)

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Pulling Curtains Gently / ©KD Constellage April 25, 2025 

Participating in a Constellating Systems Circle is the practice of being with another’s pain while dignifying everyone’s experience. It requires a commitment of your time and attention. It offers unique opportunities to stand in an other’s shoes, while representing a part of their systemic issue (near, literally.) This embodied experience of otherness expands personal experience, it even re–shapes worldviews.

When lament is due, we long to be seen and heard. We crave the dew of tears on our cheeks and yearn for communal tears to well up in response. In the presence of another, our courage to ‘feel what is’ inevitably reaches places we may not dare to go alone. Memories stored in the body and silenced vulnerabilities within us dare to emerge. Just as shared joy and laughter are, shared tears become a gift. Indeed, tears are the dew that sprouts buds on the branches of connection among all present. Fortunately, heartbreak also serves as a clarion call to awaken, reimagine, reinvent, and take action.

If trusted humans are rare it becomes an impediment to even seek connection. This group becomes a portal to a gentle practice of sharing ourselves. Should you join us in stepping toward your core wounds —in community, no less– my skill is to make this a gentle ride. Moreover, you will be among poeple who also look for mending such wounds. They too, have lived experience that supports mutual seeing and knowing. Shared stories of neglect, violation, exclusion, absence, and unpredictability resonate and echo, so do memories of goodness, joy, and loving presence.

Joint presence in the circle prepares us for updating survival skills, the kind we developed in childhood, to draw curtains over unresolvable pain(s). Tears, and the delight of togetherness (yes, we also laugh hysterically), nourish everyone’s courage. We engage each other gently, sometimes fiercely. We meet and mend whatever broken connections respond to our invocation of systemic healing.

Partaking gifts each of us with being withnessed
 and touched, in midst of a culture of pain avoidant distancing

< NOTE: the link below logistics information is incorrect!>
booking takes you to your payment options (between $80.00 and $150.00) payment alerts me to your booking <> your confirmation TEXT arrives shortly thereafter >\ 
You may also pay with check of cash at the event.
Please, text me to confirm your participation at +1 (303) 808 6280!!